So I was talking with this friend of mine and he kinda reminded me of an incident that happened way back when I was much younger... It was about 8years ago or so.. He wanted me to tell him exactly Wah happened cos you know how people would mix up stories just so it would sound more interesting, Buh then my own version rhymed with his after I told him the whole story... It's kinda funny though Buh I just feel like writing about it, to be frank av already forgotten the whole event and how it actually happened up until last night... Here goes nothing...
We went for a teen picnic and I met this cute guy, although we didn't talk to each other that day Buh we kinda stole glances😉... I was actually more shy and naive back then... We did alot of fun activities, I was one of the best dancers then Buh I lost to a girl cos I didn't know much of the sexy moves, it was kinda embarrassing cos I just stood there watching her display her moves and I couldn't dance further cos every other person was hailing her... I hate failing, yea I was shy Buh I loved being in the spotlight especially when it came to something I had passion for and have gotten accolades for as well in the past.. It felt like the ground should open so I would just enter.. Lol, I can't dance anymore though 😥.. I was gonna use this dance competition to make the guy like me a Lil bit more and there she was reigning on my parade😈... I let it slide though cos I knew if I didn't win in this one,my wits were gonna work for me and it happened that during the quiz competitions I answered most of the questions and I was getting more attention and I noticed he was impressed too<winkz>.. I had won but I was kinda disappointed that the picnic ended and this Dude didn't ask for my number or even talk to me... Damn!!
Few days later, I got a call and it was from my crush.. I was super elated! Lool, we got talking and he asked me out, I accepted o Buh as I said earlier, I was too shy and naive and coming from a strict home, you dare not go out without stating with facts where you were going to so the relationship was more of a phone thing and I felt the Guy wasn't really liking the whole idea cos he was more of an outdoor person, hanging out with Bae and stuff like that... I felt I was even holding him back too Buh you know you can't trust all these Ajebuter kids sha, he was attending a private school then and I knew alot of them girls were all over him... I can't even remember wah happened between us again Buh the whole thing ended, I liked him though Buh I couldn't shake off the feeling that I just wasn't good enough and the next thing I heard he was with My friend, my own friend... It didn't really get to me much though cos the girl actually told me everything that happened and I just let her have him... More so she was the one that asked him out and i cannot coman start fighting for Man, as young as I was then plus the naivety.. Haaaaa, even now I cannot coman do it woooh and my friend asked why didn't I fight for him and that's actually the reason I decided to share this story.. Lemme not talk about a girl asking a guy out sha Buh.. My main point is,
Seriously, why should a Lady fight for a Guy with another Lady... I mean there are plenty of Men to go around, why will you lose sleep cos a man is cheating on you with another lady...
Most times it's actually not something you ain't doing right Buh it's THEM... These type of men hold no value for themselves and that's why they do that... Trust me, A man who values himself wouldn't cheat, if there's something a lady isn't doing right then let her know, help her change and if it's not working then leave and find someone who would be down for you...
Again, If we ladies would value ourselves more over money and other material things maybe, just maybe these men will look at us in a different light, they would treat us with a little more respect... We call them demons and say they are all the same Buh in every demon, there was a girl whom he once loved dearly and she treated him badly... I wish there's a way to end this trend of Relationship/Marriage Bullying really, on both parties I mean... Ladies do something with your lives please, we pray to God to give us good husbands Buh then we forget that God can't give a good Guy what he doesn't deserve, the good guy needs a good girl as well so Ladies, Be what you intend to attract!
I hope we all find true love someday...
Thanks for reading my long story though, I hope you liked it😁
We went for a teen picnic and I met this cute guy, although we didn't talk to each other that day Buh we kinda stole glances😉... I was actually more shy and naive back then... We did alot of fun activities, I was one of the best dancers then Buh I lost to a girl cos I didn't know much of the sexy moves, it was kinda embarrassing cos I just stood there watching her display her moves and I couldn't dance further cos every other person was hailing her... I hate failing, yea I was shy Buh I loved being in the spotlight especially when it came to something I had passion for and have gotten accolades for as well in the past.. It felt like the ground should open so I would just enter.. Lol, I can't dance anymore though 😥.. I was gonna use this dance competition to make the guy like me a Lil bit more and there she was reigning on my parade😈... I let it slide though cos I knew if I didn't win in this one,my wits were gonna work for me and it happened that during the quiz competitions I answered most of the questions and I was getting more attention and I noticed he was impressed too<winkz>.. I had won but I was kinda disappointed that the picnic ended and this Dude didn't ask for my number or even talk to me... Damn!!
Few days later, I got a call and it was from my crush.. I was super elated! Lool, we got talking and he asked me out, I accepted o Buh as I said earlier, I was too shy and naive and coming from a strict home, you dare not go out without stating with facts where you were going to so the relationship was more of a phone thing and I felt the Guy wasn't really liking the whole idea cos he was more of an outdoor person, hanging out with Bae and stuff like that... I felt I was even holding him back too Buh you know you can't trust all these Ajebuter kids sha, he was attending a private school then and I knew alot of them girls were all over him... I can't even remember wah happened between us again Buh the whole thing ended, I liked him though Buh I couldn't shake off the feeling that I just wasn't good enough and the next thing I heard he was with My friend, my own friend... It didn't really get to me much though cos the girl actually told me everything that happened and I just let her have him... More so she was the one that asked him out and i cannot coman start fighting for Man, as young as I was then plus the naivety.. Haaaaa, even now I cannot coman do it woooh and my friend asked why didn't I fight for him and that's actually the reason I decided to share this story.. Lemme not talk about a girl asking a guy out sha Buh.. My main point is,
Seriously, why should a Lady fight for a Guy with another Lady... I mean there are plenty of Men to go around, why will you lose sleep cos a man is cheating on you with another lady...
Most times it's actually not something you ain't doing right Buh it's THEM... These type of men hold no value for themselves and that's why they do that... Trust me, A man who values himself wouldn't cheat, if there's something a lady isn't doing right then let her know, help her change and if it's not working then leave and find someone who would be down for you...
Again, If we ladies would value ourselves more over money and other material things maybe, just maybe these men will look at us in a different light, they would treat us with a little more respect... We call them demons and say they are all the same Buh in every demon, there was a girl whom he once loved dearly and she treated him badly... I wish there's a way to end this trend of Relationship/Marriage Bullying really, on both parties I mean... Ladies do something with your lives please, we pray to God to give us good husbands Buh then we forget that God can't give a good Guy what he doesn't deserve, the good guy needs a good girl as well so Ladies, Be what you intend to attract!
I hope we all find true love someday...
Thanks for reading my long story though, I hope you liked it😁
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